Are You Wasting Your Life?

A lot of times, I’ll be sitting in bed at 3 A.M. staring at the ceiling and thinking about the most random things. Sometimes that is where I get ideas for my blog, others it is just me wondering how the world would be if we all could breathe underwater.

As a teenager, I happen to be a part of what we call “fandoms”. I refer to myself as band trash and follow the lives of people who don’t even know I exist. Last night, I thought about this in a little more depth.

What was I accomplishing by knowing things I really shouldn’t about these people? When I look back on my life, am I really only going to see that all these other people have done so much, but all I did was watch?

This isn’t necessarily the only case of wasting time. I live vicariously through others, but there are many other ways to lead a life that may not really be worth living.

You may just procrastinate(I also do this), or you are doing something that isn’t necessarily exciting or interesting to you.

None of these things seem to be good in regards to living life to the fullest.

While doing some of these things is perfectly fine sometimes, they most definitely should not get in the way of your actual life. Your life is just as important as the next person’s, so why shouldn’t you be doing something worthwhile?

There is an unfortunate fact that we all have to face one day and the sooner we do, the better.

Life is short.

While you may be thinking you have all the time in the world, life is flying by. There are so many things we may never get to do because we wasted all of our time that we could have been living life.

Now, thinking too hard about how short life is can lead to an existential crisis, which can be even worse than just sitting on a computer and scrolling through fan pages all day.

My suggestion is to just find what makes you happy, and do it. Spend time doing what brightens your mood and remember that you only have one life. One fragile, extremely short life.

What are you going to do with it?



You Can Do It.

Not every moment is a great one.

This is a sad and unfortunate truth. But putting a positive prospective on it, would the good moments be as good if the bad ones didn’t exist? It’s a struggle to get through the bad times in life, especially when they last weeks, months, or even years.

Whatever it is that you are going through right now, I’m here to tell you 4 important words.

You can do this.

Tough times aren’t a good time. That’s probably the best way to say that. Whether you are being physically, emotionally, or mentally strained and hurt, I know you will power through. It’s somewhere deep within you. You just have to dig a little deeper is all. Unfortunately, you don’t always have control over every aspect of your life, but you can make the most of what you can do.

When you are going through a rough time, sometimes it’s hard to stay strong and to think about the good things in your life. You are most definitely strong enough to do this. It may not feel like it, but you are. There is so much potential for greatness inside of you.

A simple tip is to just forget what has hurt you. Focus on the good things, but don’t forget what the pain taught you because more often than not, it teaches a lesson.

We all go through different hardships. That might be part of what makes the time after so hard. No one will understand something in the same way you do. Someone could go through the same situation, but will always experience it differently emotionally.

This may also be why loneliness exists even when you aren’t alone.

But this can also teach independence. We need to learn to not rely on others for support.

Sometimes we need to support ourselves.

Having others is an important thing as we cannot always help ourselves, which that is absolutely fine. But we should know how to be self-sufficient in harrowing occasions.

In conclusion, you are an amazing person that can do anything if you put your mind to it. Anything and everything is possible if you work hard enough. Even if others don’t believe in you, I do.

You know what I say, work hard, be successful, and prove them all wrong. If you ever doubt yourself, just remember the 4 words.

You can do it.



5 Things to Remember When Feeling Depressed

Our minds can often deceive us in how we see the world. Sometimes it can make us feel like everyone we know has just left or our life is just seemingly hopeless. Although a state of depression can make us lose all productivity and cause an extreme slump that’s hard to escape from, it is possible to get out of. So here are a few things to remember whilst in this hole of sadness and despair.

1. It’s okay to feel like this.

Sometimes when we are sad or feel lonely, we tend to make the mistake of thinking that we have no right to feel like this. Someone else has it worse, right? So why would I feel like this? Well, that doesn’t matter because we all have our own struggles, our own story, and our own life. All feelings you feel are valid, no matter how much worse someone else could have it. It’s okay to just take in the sadness for a while. You can take as much time as you need. But after you take this time, you also need to try to help yourself get over this state, which leads to the next point.

2. You still eventually need to move on with your life.

Taking some time off to get yourself together and try feeling better is a good idea, but it eventually needs to come to an end. Unfortunately, life doesn’t stop for anyone. We still need to do our part in the world. So while taking a break, you can dwell in the depression for a while, but eventually you need to at least try to make yourself feel a little better. I know from experience that it’s hard to do, but it’s possible. Read inspiring posts or listen to music.

3. Life gets better.

I know that when you’re sad like that it’s hard to remember that this feeling is only temporary. This isn’t forever. Everything gets better one day. Even though you feel like everything is hopeless and there is no way out, it will get better. One day, you will find someone who loves you very much or you will get a job that you wake up and get excited to go out and do(unless you’re like me and your job doesn’t involve leaving the house). Everything will be what you want it to be one day. Even if today isn’t that day, it’s okay. Be patient. Patience is one of the hardest things to have in a time of suffering, but it’s key in this situation.

4. You are doing absolutely amazing right now.

While you may be struggling, that doesn’t mean you aren’t doing great. As long as you are here on this earth still, you are perfect. And also remember you could be doing worse. But just because you aren’t in the worst case scenario, doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to feel this way. You may find that I’ll say this a lot on my blog, but I will keep saying it until it is in every single brain that processes the words I write. You are amazing in every single way. And don’t forget that.

5. The world may be cruel, but there’s some cool stuff here.

Dogs. Cats. Alpacas. Animals in general are basically the best thing about this planet. That’s just my opinion though. But not just animals, but life in general. From the forests with the variety of creatures, to the cities filled with diverse people. It’s all pretty amazing. Especially since we can observe it and just take in it’s beauty. We tend to take for granted what we have on this earth. But unfortunately, it’s not all in proper proportion. Not just physically, but also mentally and emotionally. Which is why I need to write this post. To help those who got a little smaller piece of the pie that is life. But one day that piece will grow into a blossoming future.

And it will all be okay.

If all else fails, just give it the old razzle dazzle and try to be happy. Maybe even do jazz hands behind your back to give yourself a little boost. I know that I may or may not be a help to some people, but I sure can try. No one deserves the feeling of being depressed. Especially not you. Just go with the flow and push through. I know you can do it.