Not every moment is a great one.
This is a sad and unfortunate truth. But putting a positive prospective on it, would the good moments be as good if the bad ones didn’t exist? It’s a struggle to get through the bad times in life, especially when they last weeks, months, or even years.
Whatever it is that you are going through right now, I’m here to tell you 4 important words.
You can do this.
Tough times aren’t a good time. That’s probably the best way to say that. Whether you are being physically, emotionally, or mentally strained and hurt, I know you will power through. It’s somewhere deep within you. You just have to dig a little deeper is all. Unfortunately, you don’t always have control over every aspect of your life, but you can make the most of what you can do.
When you are going through a rough time, sometimes it’s hard to stay strong and to think about the good things in your life. You are most definitely strong enough to do this. It may not feel like it, but you are. There is so much potential for greatness inside of you.
A simple tip is to just forget what has hurt you. Focus on the good things, but don’t forget what the pain taught you because more often than not, it teaches a lesson.
We all go through different hardships. That might be part of what makes the time after so hard. No one will understand something in the same way you do. Someone could go through the same situation, but will always experience it differently emotionally.
This may also be why loneliness exists even when you aren’t alone.
But this can also teach independence. We need to learn to not rely on others for support.
Sometimes we need to support ourselves.
Having others is an important thing as we cannot always help ourselves, which that is absolutely fine. But we should know how to be self-sufficient in harrowing occasions.
In conclusion, you are an amazing person that can do anything if you put your mind to it. Anything and everything is possible if you work hard enough. Even if others don’t believe in you, I do.
You know what I say, work hard, be successful, and prove them all wrong. If you ever doubt yourself, just remember the 4 words.
You can do it.